Differences
How do you actually define differences? Is it something measurable? Like difference in thoughts, opinions, culture, caste, color? How? To me differences are based on a certain parameter, to my better half it is on a different scale all together.How do we sort that out? The problem is not, having differences. The issue is having differences and not learning to accept the differences among each other.
When you fall in love, you might jump into a decision or bump into a person who has different thoughts, goals, opinions in life than yours. What holds them together would only be the fact that there exist love. The care for one another despite on the hair pulling fights between each other.
Its strange how two completely different people born and bought up at two different states or cultures can come together and even think of making a world of their own. Think about it, how exciting it could be. To have two extremes of life, to explore a different world and make it yours. This applies to two completely flexible people who are ready to explore.
I can enter your life and experience your differences, till i am comfortable. What happens if the other is not able to accept and not ready to explore? How to sort the differences of being Different? Love exist and friendship too, but differences need to be accepted and lived with. Not for the sake of a word but for a whole life time. The thought is absurd and uncommon.
But how to define the differences?
How do you actually define differences? Is it something measurable? Like difference in thoughts, opinions, culture, caste, color? How? To me differences are based on a certain parameter, to my better half it is on a different scale all together.How do we sort that out? The problem is not, having differences. The issue is having differences and not learning to accept the differences among each other.
When you fall in love, you might jump into a decision or bump into a person who has different thoughts, goals, opinions in life than yours. What holds them together would only be the fact that there exist love. The care for one another despite on the hair pulling fights between each other.
Its strange how two completely different people born and bought up at two different states or cultures can come together and even think of making a world of their own. Think about it, how exciting it could be. To have two extremes of life, to explore a different world and make it yours. This applies to two completely flexible people who are ready to explore.
I can enter your life and experience your differences, till i am comfortable. What happens if the other is not able to accept and not ready to explore? How to sort the differences of being Different? Love exist and friendship too, but differences need to be accepted and lived with. Not for the sake of a word but for a whole life time. The thought is absurd and uncommon.
But how to define the differences?
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